Ornella Muti

If you spend some more time to satisfy your own needs rather than others’, you’ll be able to prevent that boiling anger and temper within you to surface. You supress your desires in order to find peace but all you find is only confusion sometimes accompanied by contradiction. Both love and sexuality may bring along problems because you can approach your loved ones coldly as much as you approach them warmly. Either you don’t care about the difference or love-hate polarity is what attracts you. Your high sexual energy may result in spoiling your creativity by giving in to sexual attraction and extreme sentimentality. It is possible that you are easily falling in love with everyone who shows a little bit of compassion to you. You are attracted to the opposite sex and are not satisfied with simple, friendly, platonic relationships. In your love affairs, you put your own needs to the top of list and show impatience in satisfying them. One day you are compassionate and the other cold. One day you are asking for affection but your partner is distant and the other day the opposite is the case. When you dispute with your partner, you are probably expressing your anger through harsh words or even physical fights. But when you calm down, you continue loving as if nothing has ever happened. In such cases, your partner will naturally be confused. You are always ready to begin anew but what about your partner? Since you won’t be able to fathom your partner’s confusion, the situation will result in frustration, or even a second wave of anger. If you are having a relationship, you are having it because you want to. If you are not in a relationship, then it means you don’t want to be. Your emotions doesn’t have consistence and you have a hard time dealing with them. You are hesitant and undecided; your standards of manners and actions are continuously changing. You have to learn how to come to terms with others in order to prevent fits of anger. Maybe you should obtain a punching bag to punch in times of anger. But don’t mistake the ones you love with that punching bag. Overcome your ever changing feelings of love and hate towards the people you value in your life. 

Venus in Aquarius  You express your love and emotions openly, not in a traditional way. Socializing, gathering people together and having a lot of friends are matters that attract you. Since you attach more importance to friendship than love affairs, being a friend more than a lover is more comfortable for you. One thing is certain, you dislike affairs with possessive persons who stick to you as if glued. You want to be free and do anything you wish with anyone you like. You want intellectual and spiritual bonds with your partner instead of emotional ones. You desire a partner who will give you a great freedom, he/she must let yourself be and shouldn’t be much demanding on an emotional level. You are charming, happy and original, but at the same time cold, distant and quiet. Distance is good for you; you never exhibit possessive behavior towards anyone or anything. Your feelings need to be filtered and transformed into intellectual patterns in your mind. You need to learn to be warm and understanding.

Mars in the 8th house   You may have energy, desire and willingness to do research, find the cause, play the detective and unveil secrets. Life may create financial problems by the hand of a partner in order to have you understand all about the importance of money. You may also find financial opportunities through marriage or inheritance. In every relationship, you may have to learn to share personal resources. You need to control your passions and desires, and even your mood. You may be interested in healing and surgery. You have strong sexual instincts. Due to your overly lustful and desirous nature, you may have a lot of short-lived love affairs. You are interested in the supernatural. The occult, metaphysics, sexuality and sex magic may be other fields of interest. You may find yourself in the middle of a war or a terrorist attack, or get wounded in revolts, probably by firearms. This positioning will give you an interest in spiritual studies, too. You'll be successful in all fields in life as you utilize your abundant energy. Here Mars is in his own House and therefore in a position where it will be highly influential. While it represents positive dialogues with your spouse, it also points to problems related to banking and taxes. You must be extremely careful when taking a bank loan and take measures against any problem that may occur related to tax payments. You may lose money because of the procedures of tax offices and financial institutions from which you receive service.

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